Here’s a little about me that I haven’t spelled out on the blog:
My mission in life is to empower you to be the best version of yourself.
This means leveling up from where you are right now by growing Love from within your heart and mind garden (Relationship Growth Farming).
Yes, becoming a farmer of Love for yourself is how you change your life.
It’s how I’ve changed mine, and I’m blessed to have the opportunity to show you how to do this too!
Life brings similar people together
I hope you’ll see how our journeys might be similar.
I spent much of my life afraid of other people, what they thought of me, and a deep fear of rejection.
Suffice to say, I didn’t have any confidence.
I also didn’t know how to Love myself (I actually thought self Love was “selfish” and was the same thing as being arrogant; trust me I’ve learned that it’s NOT!).
That was my broken sense of self-worth talking.
I’m a short guy (5′ 7″) and weigh under 130 lbs. I was always the shortest and skinniest guy in school so I was picked on and bullied a lot.
And that was part of what fueled my insecurity and lack of confidence. But it turns out that even 6’5″ athletes struggle with self-worth and confidence issues.
I know that now because I’ve worked with a few people who seemed to fit that description of someone I believed would have endless confidence. They didn’t. They had many of the same inner struggles I did.
After I got out of college I got married to a very beautiful lady and thought I’d conquered my fears of rejection. I had a successful career in broadcast media including being a syndicated radio show host.
I thought that between being married and having people all over the world know who I was, that made me something.
But I was hiding
The truth was, I was inwardly afraid of not being Loved or accepted as I was. And I was waiting for the day when other people would walk away and tell me I wasn’t good enough.
Which is what ended up happening (in a way). One day in 2017, my wife of 12 years said she was done with our marriage. She left a month later and divorce followed.
To say I was heartbroken is an understatement. I went to rock bottom and smashed through the floor another 10,000 feet to the basement. It was a personal hell I never imagine.
That marriage had been my whole world
My sense of self and worth walked out the door when she did. That was also when I began to learn more about me that I’d been hiding for decades.
The next two years were a state of transformation. I was tired of feeling less than, not good enough, and broken. I realized that the real cause of my pain, and the reason why I’d struggled in life, was because I didn’t know how to Love myself. So I committed to re-learning what Love truly is and began a practice of Loving myself fully. Unconditionally.
Just as I am.
I began a process of utilizing some key principles I learned in another place (amateur boxing) to rebuild my self-concept, utilizing Love as the way and the means, to become the person I wanted to be.
Going through this journey into learning what Love is and how to Love myself completely transformed my life.
This journey also involved me creating a system that I now call Growth Farming. It’s treating your heart and your mind like a garden. By consciously and consistently planting Love inside yourself, Love becomes what you attract into and grow from your life.
The results have been a complete life transformation. In every way.
I‘ve been able to do work that fulfills my purpose, impact the lives of hundreds of people, foster strong and amazing relationships with people, and experience the fullness of Love. I finally feel whole, strong, and confident in who I am.
And you can too.
Do you want to take your life and relationships to a whole new level?
Then Work With Me Today
Transform Your Life & Relationships With The Power Of Love
Hint: Growing your mind and heart garden is the key!
I help people feel empowered & confident in every area of their life (both personal and professional) by teaching them to fully Love themselves.
Often this involves allowing yourself to change the way you see things and adopting some new ways of thinking and living.
I help you transform how you see and value yourself to create healthy, Loving relationships and peace in abundance.
And that’s just the tip of the iceberg.
I help people transform how they see and value themselves to create healthy relationships rooted in Love and peace.
My specialties are in helping people who have experienced breakups and painful relationships learn how to understand what Love really is and how to Love themselves.
I also help people who struggle with deep insecurities, people-pleasing patterns, and lack of confidence.
Insights into what individual and group clients gain from our work together
Emotional and mental healing following divorce or breakup from a long-term relationship
Spiritual growth and development in understanding Love as your true self
Deep and expanding understanding of what Love is, how it works, how to give it to yourself, and how to foster it to have truly Loving and healthy relationships
Leadership development and influence
Meditation for peace and well-being
Growing Love within yourself to produce a harvest of peace, joy and success in every area of your life
A complete transformation of your self-concept (how you see and value yourself including your inner narrative on a conscious and subconscious level)
The values I bring to the table for those who work with me
X-ray empowerment vision: I help people see into their own hearts and understand their skills and self to discern their hidden superpowers (and the ways Love shows up and speak through them). I communicate this to them through empowerment and metaphoric storytelling.
Powerful, direct, clear, and transformative communication that impacts your perspective of yourself, life, relationships, God/spirituality, and business/professional career.
A safe space to feel your feelings, express your thoughts, let your fears/doubts/worries come into the light without judgment, criticism, or condescension. The trust we share and the bond we have create the atmosphere to release what is holding you back so that you can experience complete peace, calm, and joy.
Uncommon kindness, gentleness, patience, presence, and peace.
Whimsy, fun, creativity, and enjoyment in the moment that creates positive change and transformation for your mental/emotional/physical/spiritual health and well-being.
Powerful, life-changing wisdom.
Deep, rich inspiration and encouragement.
Practical, simple steps to take to move you forward in your journey, overcoming fears and limiting beliefs so that the fruit of your life is vibrant, powerful, and flourishing.
Intuitive insights into the story you’re living. I help you put the pieces together to see yourself and your life situations with clarity to trust and understand the journey you’re walking on.
Empathy and genuine care about the well-being and growth of people through the power of Love.
Gentleness, kindness, respect, honor, patience, and peace throughout the process of healing, growth, and transformation.
How do I deliver this transformation: personal and private one-on-one sessions, training programs, workshops, and speaking/teaching events.
For personal and private one-on-one sessions: Commitment to the process is essential to truly experience growth and transformation.
This requires you to fully commit to yourself, to do the work that is given at the end of each session, and to be fully present in our time together.
We will workshop together specific tools to use to bring healing, transformation, and changes into your life and relationships. The tools are simple, powerful, and effective. They’ve worked in my own life and in the lives of everyone I’ve worked with over the last five years.
What is it like to work with me as a student and client?
Hear exactly what just a few amazing people have to say about what it was to work with me:
-This video testimonial from Dr. Jay Cavanaugh was requested by him based on a profound shift he experienced after one conversation we had together.
-Lindsay experienced tremendous growth in our sessions together. After taking some time off, she has rejoined my full program that provides everything in the Relationship Growth Farming wheelhouse for her to continue expanding her life and journey.
Tim went through the full Be Solid Training Program that combines online learning with private coaching over a specified period of time.
His transformation from nervous and anxious into confident and peaceful dramatically improved his career and relationships.
This is how I can serve you if you are serious about truly changing your life.
Empowering metaphorical wisdom is a gift I operate and flow in. It allows me to approach each conversation with empathy and a unique perspective to create transformational results.
Serving people to overcome challenges, fears, and trauma from painful experiences is my passion and my purpose.
Conquer your biggest obstacles and move into a place of personal and professional success.
That’s the heart and soul of how I serve people. I call it Relationship Growth Farming.
The decision to work with me requires both a time and financial commitment. By joining with me, you agree to show up on time for our sessions and take the action steps given at the end of each session. Private coaching programs range from a six-month to a year-long commitment.
Are you ready to create real change in your life?
Send an email to [email protected] with the subject line “Be My Coach” to get started. We’ll meet and have a conversation about how to move forward together.