Welcome to you! I’m D Grant Smith and I help big-hearted people learn to Love themselves, stop seeking validation, and grow healthy relationships.
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Many of us have been trained and programmed to try and earn Love, acceptance, and validation from others.
So what do we usually do? We chase after it. Seeking, searching, trying to prove our worthiness.
Hoping someone else will find value in who we are.
Why? Because we can’t see it in ourselves.
When we do find love (or what we think is Love, notice the difference between “love” and “Love”), often it’s fleeting.
And we end up experiencing tension, drama, & issues we don’t know how to deal with.
Has this been your experience?
A codependent way of approaching others for validation is why so many people struggle with relationships. Whether it’s friendship, family, or romance, chasing after Love feeds all sorts of unhealthy patterns. And creates more brokenness.
The truth is we don’t need to search for LOVE. Because it’s already inside you!
You just haven’t known or been shown how to Love yourself fully so that you operate from the LOVE that you are.
The real key to happiness, fulfillment, and living your best life is to tend to your inner garden. And grow Love from within. This is a process I call Relationship Growth Farming.
When we apply this to the relationship with have with ourselves (self-Love), it impacts all our relationships in the best ways.
This is how I serve people from all walks of life. Particularly those of us who identify as big-hearted people.
Is that how you describe yourself, as a big-hearted person?
If you’ve struggled with maintaining healthy relationships, not felt confident or secure in yourself, experienced heartbreak you’ve not been able to get over, had a hard time finding a job or career that is fulfilling, struggled with money, or have searched for Love and not found it…..
Welcome. You’re in the right place.
LOVE is the key to everything you want in life
We are conditioned and taught that we have to earn the LOVE we seek. So we try to prove ourselves over and over again to earn Love, validation, and acceptance from others.
We search for approval. From friends, from our careers, from family, and from the person we connect with romantically. This is what codependency/people-pleasing is.
It leads to a lot of dysfunction and a continual pattern of roller-coaster experiences in relationships.
The truth is, LOVE (used in all caps because of its Divine power) is what holds you, me, the world, and the universe together. And it’s already in you.
This means, LOVE is who you are! We have to learn how to plant, cultivate, and grow the LOVE inside of us to have the life we dream of in our relationships, careers, passions, and personal lives.
If you want to experience more of the fullness of LOVE, you have to learn how to grow it inside of you.
Want to make the change from seeking validation to Loving yourself? Set up a time for us to talk now. It’s free and I promise you’ll gain practical tools and help in your self-Love journey.
Let’s talk about real growth for a second:
Your heart and your mind are a garden.
What you plant inside yourself with your thoughts, beliefs, and patterns produce fruit in your actions, attitudes, and behaviors. It’s also what you’re going to attract more of into your life.
By planting & cultivating LOVE inside, you experience the Tree Of Life growing from within and impacting every area of your life and relationships.
Relationships are the primary aspect of all of our lives. Cultivating healthy relationships create your biggest successes, both personally and professionally.
The most important relationship you have is with yourself. Sit in this truth for just a moment. Let it sink in.
What if you’ve experienced heartbreak and loss from a relationship and you’re struggling with just getting out of bed in the morning? The idea of finding Love is a distant concept. What can you do now to heal yourself?
That’s why I’m here.
There are a ton of tools, resources, and avenues for us to work together to help you grow Love from the inside out here for you.
The more you grow in self-Love, the more peace and confidence you have with yourself. The stronger and more healthy your relationships with others will be. The more successful you are in your career and professional life. The more connected you feel to God.
Love is the key to truly having your heart’s desire. Love is the fuel that makes for real happiness and success. We all want Love but we’re not taught how to give it to ourselves.
You can change that now but learning how Relationship Growth Farming works.
What’s Here For You:
Be A Part Of The Growth Farming Tribe: Join my free newsletter to get empowering and practical tools to grow yourself and your relationships using self-Love.
Blog Articles: Learn practical and effective ways to grow in confidence, heal from emotional issues, and level up in life with tons of resources in my blog covering a variety of mindset, Love, relationship growth, and related topics.
Books: Grow your relationship-building abilities, improve your communication, and create new opportunities for growth and success both personally and professionally.
Courses: Start with the basics of growing confidence and changing your self-concept to digging into the soil of self-Love to grow your inner heart garden with the core foundational elements. There are also incredible and impactful courses on meditation, self-worth, and the seminal Be Solid Training program which incorporates online teachings with personal coaching for the ultimate transformation program.
To best serve my clients and students, I reserve my coaching to a small list of people I serve at one time. If you want to work with me directly and be your personal self-Love mentor, send an email to [email protected] Ask what coaching and training opportunities are available.
“Choosing to work with D was one of the best decisions I’ve ever made. I’d been doing some work on my own and with a therapist but still felt stuck in my past. There’s something really transformative about including spiritual practices in the healing journey.
D is extremely gifted and in-tune with what his clients need to reach a breakthrough. Every meditation, visualization, and breathing exercise I did with D brought me so much peace and healing. I’m a brand new person living every day with a joy I just couldn’t get to on my own. I’m forever grateful for D and everything he taught me!” –Lindsay Blooms, life coach & speaker
“D Grant certainly has a true gift for helping people!” -Joy Ellinger, Johnson & Johnson sales/client representative
“The number one best thing from working with D Grant would be the clarity he provided. Not in terms of telling me what to do next, but providing me with the tools and mindset to be able to see for myself. That is true clarity. I know at all times what I need to do next, how it all comes together. And I know whenever things get confusing, I’m one session away from renewed clarity.
And then there is the certainty that I’ll feel better after every session. All the knowledge I’ve gained over the years and the many courses I’ve done are like the ingredients to the banquet of my career… and I am the chef or rather the recipe for me to become my best self.”
–Marti Purull, author and musician
“D Grant has a unique gift – the ability to love almost endlessly. Very few are capable of giving so much of themselves without draining their own emotional well. What truly makes D a unique mentor is his ability to teach others how to find that well within themselves. Whether you need to grow your professional life, your friendships, or even your own self love, I can guarantee that D would be among the first in line to roll up his sleeves and start digging alongside you.”
–Ashley Miranda, entrepreneur and writer
“Personal development has been a new area of my life but one I am incredibly passionate about now. I am loving the never-ending pursuit of my ‘best self’! This growth has made me realize I’ve lived with a negative mindset for a long time (although I was really good at telling myself I wasn’t, ha!) and sometimes you need someone else to shake you to realize the rut you’re stuck in. Thank you for the guidance, D Grant!”
–Jon Pattie, musician & artist
Do you want help in learning how to Love yourself fully to leave codependent patterns and feeling unworthy of Love behind? Get it now. Let’s have a chat over a virtual coffee. You can ask any questions, get more insights into what self-Love through Growth Farming looks like, and gain powerful next steps to take to transform your life. And it’s completely free. Set up a time for us to talk here.