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Love & Relationship Tip: Use Kindness Instead Of “Niceness”

The phrase “Nice guys finish last” is 1000% true. This is why it’s such a struggle for sensitive and caring people to operate out of kindness. When you don’t fully understand what Kindness is, you’re likely to get stepped on. Wait, hold on dude. Are you saying that I shouldn’t be nice to people? You’re …

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How To Be First In Initiating Growth In Your Life

You have to create your own openings to succeed. From relationships to business, you have to be first in initiating growth and change in your life. One thing that used to make people really stand out to me was the degree of initiative they showed. When I ran a public radio station years ago, I …

Break Codependency By Choosing To Be First With Yourself

Sensitive and highly emotional people often struggle with people-pleasing. This codependent pattern causes difficulties and problems in all relationships. You break codependency by choosing to be first with yourself. The process of ending codependency is about breaking behavioral energy patterns. The ways you exude codependent tendencies are going to change, especially as you work through …

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Be First In Creating Harmony In Relationships

  Harmony is when currents come together in synchronicity and togetherness. This is oneness. Which is why harmony is such an important part of music. And why you can hear when something is not harmonious.  It just doesn’t sound right. Our feelings are similar in this way.  When you don’t feel harmonious in a relationship, …

The BIGGEST Lesson From Coronavirus So Far

Wow…..there’s a lesson you can learn everyday. Especially during a global pandemic. So much has happened in such a short amount of time. It’s beyond mind-boggling. In my meditation times each day, I’m reminded that every day is an opportunity to learn. Every experience is an opportunity to learn. ESPECIALLY THE EFFING DIFFICULT STUFF!!!! I …

How To Get Better & Paid Gigs With Roberto Hernandez

Is it strange or interesting to find another drummer on the podcast? We’re just multifaceted artists, not just musicians with sticks who like to hit things, ha! I was intrigued by Roberto Hernandez from the first message he sent me. Perhaps that’s because he chose one of the most unique ways to introduce himself. Instead …