D Grant Smith-The Relationship Growth Farmer
Grow Love Within Yourself To Produce Your Best Life
George Washington is among quite a few people credited for saying, “Those who forget the past are destined to repeat it.” I heard that when I was in high school and took it to mean that we need to hold on to our history with tight-fisted vigilance or else we’ll keep making the same mistakes. …
Escape seeking validation from anyone else and just focus on yourself. Think about you. Right now. Just you. Is the first thing that you naturally think about something that you don’t like? Is it something about yourself that you want to change? Maybe you immediately think of a problem that you have. It’s something that’s …
Do you ever just feel stuck? Like you don’t know what you’re supposed to do or how to move forward with your life? When you feel this way it’s hard to find the key to getting unstuck. I completely know and understand this feeling. You get an idea or an inspiration for something and start …
There’s a word you have been telling yourself, almost from birth. It might have been one of the first words you heard as a child other than your name. Other than when your parents repeated “Mommy” and “Daddy” to you to try and get you to speak for the first time. While this elemental nature …
The phrase “Nice guys finish last” is 1000% true. This is why it’s such a struggle for sensitive and caring people to operate out of kindness. When you don’t fully understand what Kindness is, you’re likely to get stepped on. Wait, hold on dude. Are you saying that I shouldn’t be nice to people? You’re …
Fear seems to have a strong root in most of our lives. It produces negative beliefs about who we are and what we’re capable of. That’s why you have to learn how to overcome fear to produce your dream life. Fear can also produce haters or people who seem to stop at nothing to try …
You have to create your own openings to succeed. From relationships to business, you have to be first in initiating growth and change in your life. One thing that used to make people really stand out to me was the degree of initiative they showed. When I ran a public radio station years ago, I …
I’ve been growing in a powerful life lesson for the past year. It’s simply this: Learn how to sit inside the question instead of rigorously pursuing the answer. This flies in the face of so much of my cultural, religious, and family upbringing and development. It’s also counter to 99.9% of entrepreneurial business and modern business …
In relationships, we all deal with issues that sometimes aren’t clearly defined that impact the trust we have in ourselves and in others. There is an intersection of Trust and True Love. They go together. They’re linked and they must be carefully tended to. What happens when issues come up? You have a bad day …
Sensitive and highly emotional people often struggle with people-pleasing. This codependent pattern causes difficulties and problems in all relationships. You break codependency by choosing to be first with yourself. The process of ending codependency is about breaking behavioral energy patterns. The ways you exude codependent tendencies are going to change, especially as you work through …
